Ask Em and Lil 11/9/20 Ask Em and Lil 11/9/20

My Friends Hang Out Without Me!

Am I being too possessive?

Ask Em and Lil 11/2/20 Ask Em and Lil 11/2/20

I Told Him It’s NOT Funny!

After sex, my boyfriend always makes the same joke.

Ask Em and Lil 10/26/20 Ask Em and Lil 10/26/20

Should I Settle Down?

How do I tell if I actually want to move or just think I should?

Ask Em and Lil 10/20/20 Ask Em and Lil 10/20/20

We’ll be Right Back!

Plus, advice to read if 2020 is getting to you!

Ask Em and Lil 10/12/20 Ask Em and Lil 10/12/20

Em and Lil… Ask Each Other!

Get to know Em and Lil, and send us your questions!

Ask Em and Lil 10/5/20 Ask Em and Lil 10/5/20

I Like Both Guys Equally!

It was definitely not made explicit, but there was hinting that romance would occur during the visit.

Ask Em and Lil 9/28/20 Ask Em and Lil 9/28/20

Save my Eight-Legged Houseguests!

My girlfriend is deathly afraid of spiders. I don’t mind them.

Ask Em and Lil 9/21/20 Ask Em and Lil 9/21/20

He Likes Big Bellies (and he cannot lie)

I just started going out with a guy from a dating app. He has a lot of great qualities but one thing is striking me as a red flag.

Ask Em and Lil 9/14/20 Ask Em and Lil 9/14/20

Should I Ask if we’re More than Friends?

About once a year every year we flirt and maybe become romantic, and then we continue as friends, never discussing.

Ask Em and Lil 8/31/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/31/20

I Can’t Balance my Social Life!

I really, really like my new boyfriend and I don’t want to push him away by being with my friends.

Ask Em and Lil 8/24/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/24/20

An Abundance of Covid Cooties

I feel guilty about seeing groups of friends and family in person, but I also feel guilty about saying no to people.

Ask Em and Lil 8/17/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/17/20

Should I be his Rebound?

I recently got very drunk with my best friend and he tried to make a move.

Ask Em and Lil 8/10/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/10/20

Their Mom Would Strangle me on Sight!

My current partner and I have a history; we had a romantic relationship in college, and were apart for a number of years before we reconnected.

Ask Em and Lil 8/3/20 Ask Em and Lil 8/3/20

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Me!

When my boyfriend and I spend time together, it usually isn't fun because he makes it so clear that he doesn't want to be there.

Ask Em and Lil 7/27/20 Ask Em and Lil 7/27/20

I Just Want to Fix my Friends!

It has always been one of my major downfalls that I care too much about my friends, and subsequently tend to judge life choices. My friends are the most amazing people in the world— but I have never liked anyone that they date.

Ask Em and Lil 7/21/20 Ask Em and Lil 7/21/20

Sleeping Alone and Hating It!

My boyfriend and I live separately. I often want space to myself and suggest that we sleep at our own houses. But, when he suggests the same thing, I get way too offended.

Ask Em and Lil 7/13/20 Ask Em and Lil 7/13/20

Are We One of THOSE Couples?

My girlfriend and I have gotten to know each other's friends, and we all get along. When we hang out with friends we usually both go.

Ask Em and Lil 7/6/20 Ask Em and Lil 7/6/20

I Kissed. Should I Tell?

About four years ago, long before meeting my boyfriend, I made out with one of my friends. Do I need to tell my boyfriend about this history or is it ok to let bygones be bygones?

Ask Em and Lil 6/29/20 Ask Em and Lil 6/29/20

Three Times the Fun?

My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. We have a great relationship and a very fun and healthy sex life with each other. We're also very open about our sexual desires.

Ask Em and Lil 6/22/20 Ask Em and Lil 6/22/20

It’s Like Jalapeños Down There!

No matter how sweet or how much of a shitbag the person I'm sleeping with is, I feel so uncomfortable telling them if something hurts.

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